Where does this persistent belief that a woman’s orgasm is only “real” through penetration come from? The vaginal myth has deep roots in psychoanalysis and culture. It revolves around the idea that clitoral orgasm is immature and vaginal orgasm is the only mature, adult peak of pleasure. Let’s unravel this step by step, from its … Continue reading The vaginal myth: A brief journey through history
Feet are measured. With millimeter precision. In three dimensions. What is considered medical progress also changes how we perceive the body. Technology makes visible what was previously only felt. It transforms the organic into data. And with the data comes a new question: How does measurement affect our erotic perception? How does our view of … Continue reading Technology meets eroticism: 3D foot scans and the new aesthetics of perfection
Whether we love them, train them, or simply accept them, the buttocks are not only a functional part of the body, but also a symbol of beauty, strength, and individuality. In this article, we take a look at the different buttock shapes, how you can influence the shape of your buttocks through lifestyle changes, and … Continue reading Buttocks: shapes, influence, language – and how literature describes them
When we think about erotic scenes, many of us first think of the upper body. But dramaturgically, legs are often more powerful. They determine posture, closeness, and balance. They decide how a person moves, opens up, or protects themselves. The first step—building tension before anything happens Imagine a small bar, dim lighting, jazz playing in … Continue reading The role of legs in erotic encounters
Why legs are political—even when they’re bare At first glance, legs seem harmless. Everyone has a pair, they’re visible every summer, and they feel uncomplicated. Yet women’s legs have been culturally policed for more than a century. Hemlines, shaving norms, posture rules, and expectations about how women should sit have shaped not only how legs … Continue reading Legs, Gaze, and Liberation: A Feminist Look at Erotic Leg Scenes
Bare legs may seem ordinary—every summer they’re everywhere. But in erotic writing, legs possess a narrative force that few other body parts can match. A bare arm is simply factual, a bare back aesthetic, a bare stomach intimate. But when legs appear, especially unexpectedly, they begin to tell a story instantly. Legs are never just … Continue reading Why Bare Legs Tell More Than Any Other Bare Skin
Today we’re talking about a topic that is as old as lust itself – and yet so unknown that it can cause real surprises in your writing: figging. Maybe you’ve heard the term whispered before, between ropes, whips, and the soft click of handcuffs. Or maybe it’s completely new to you. Either way, here you’ll … Continue reading Figging – From Victorian punishment ritual to niche BDSM practice
Do you write erotic stories and want to portray pegging in an authentic and exciting way? Great, you’ve come to the right place! Pegging is a topic that combines intimacy, trust, and power dynamics in a fascinating way. It offers you, as an author, the chance to delve deep into the emotions and physicality of … Continue reading Pegging in erotic literature
Ben Wa balls, also known as love balls or Kegel balls, are small, smooth spheres designed to be worn inside the vagina. They can be made of metal, glass, silicone, or ABS plastic, sometimes connected by a cord for easy removal. Many contain an inner weight that shifts with movement, creating a subtle, rhythmic vibration—without … Continue reading Ben Wa Balls – When a Small Object Creates a Big Impact
Today we’re delving into the world of the thighs – often overlooked, but full of erotic potential for your stories. Let’s explore how you can use these powerful body parts to add depth and sensuality to your erotic scenes. Why thighs? Thighs are truly multi-talented in erotic literature: Power and vulnerability: As an erogenous zone, … Continue reading Thighs – powerhouses of eroticism
