Continuous Open Bidding (COB) is an informal recruitment process used by student fraternities to accept new members outside of the formal main recruitment period, which usually takes place in the fall. Purpose: COB is designed to give fraternities that have not met their quota or their chapter’s total membership after formal recruitment the opportunity to … Continue reading “Spring COB” in the life of a fraternity
Although both events involve social interactions between members of different fraternities and sororities, a mixer is not the same as a crush party. While mixers are more about meeting new people and making friends, crush parties are designed to promote romantic or platonic relationships between members of different organizations. A crush party in the context … Continue reading The difference between crush parties and mixers
A crush party (also known as a crush dance) is an established event within the American fraternity system, organized by both fraternities and sororities. This guide explains the concept and the usual procedures. Basic concept and organization The basis of a Crush Party is a structured nomination process: Forms of procedure In the standard form, … Continue reading Crush parties in the context of American student fraternities
The concept of Brat Chic, which combines rebellion, comfort and playful elegance, may at first glance seem to contradict the traditional sorority experience. But on closer inspection, it becomes clear that the philosophy of Brat Chic and the values of a sorority are perfectly compatible. Both incorporate aspects of individuality, community and self-confidence, which together … Continue reading Brat Chic and the Sorority Experience: A Surprising Symbiosis?
Have you ever heard of the term “Fraternity Sweetheart”? No? Then let me take you a little deeper into the world of Greek fraternities and their traditions! Today I want to give you some insight into the election process and give you tips on how to become a coveted Fraternity Sweetheart. Look forward to an … Continue reading How do you become a “Fraternity Sweetheart”?
Most sororities in the US are not allowed to hold parties on their own premises. However, since partying is part of being a student, parties are moved to fraternity houses or clubs where this rule does not apply. The NPC party ban The ban on partying on one’s own premises is based on the rules … Continue reading The problem of party bans in sorority houses
In Greek fraternities (often referred to as “Greek Life”) in the USA, there is a tradition called “lavaliering”. This tradition originates in the French term “lavallière,” which originally referred to a specific type of neck jewelry (a type of pendant). In the context of Greek fraternities, however, “lavaliering” means something different and is a symbolic … Continue reading From Lavaliering to Pin Presentation
Sorority slumber parties play an important role in community life and fostering cohesion among sorority sisters. These parties provide a safe, trusting environment for members to deepen their bonds. Trust games are widely used at sorority slumber parties. These serve to strengthen mutual trust and create a sense of connection. Typical trust games include: These … Continue reading The function of slumber parties in the life of sororities
In the context of Greek fraternities or so-called “Greek Life” at universities in the U.S., a “flirt basket” refers to a particular tradition or activity that often takes place during fraternity social events or formal occasions. Here is a more detailed explanation: What is a flirt basket? A flirt basket is usually a small gift … Continue reading Flirt basket
Hazing or humiliating rituals, unfortunately, plays a role in many Greek fraternities/sororities and is a controversial and often problematic topic. Here is a detailed look at the role hazing plays in Greek fraternities/sororities: Definition and Forms of Hazing What is hazing? Hazing refers to activities imposed on new members (“pledges”) to initiate them. These activities … Continue reading Hazing of Potential New Members in Greek Life
