Geboren 1976 in Bredstedt, Nordfriesland. Studium der Informatik an der CAU in Kiel. Arbeitet heute in der Softwareentwicklung. Lebt mit seiner Frau Sandra und den Katzen Mandu und Tharsis in einem Haus im Westen der Stadt.
Erotic tension doesn’t come from action. It comes from delay.Many writers confuse tension with event. They rush the characters into bed and wonder why the story goes flat afterwards. Eroticism follows different laws than plot.It’s not a destination, but a current — one that must be guided, not discharged.The goal is not to withhold pleasure … Continue reading How to Sustain Erotic Tension Across Chapters Without Releasing Too Soon→
Exposure as structure The so-called ENF moment – the instant when a woman finds herself unexpectedly naked – is not mere provocation. It is a structural device.It marks the point where a character loses every layer of protection: clothing, control, composure.What happens next determines the meaning of the scene. The ENF moment is never an … Continue reading The ENF Moment as a Dramatic Turning Point – From Shame to Self-Empowerment→
Who’s watching whom? At the heart of every erotic scene lies the gaze. It defines who holds control, who desires, and who is reduced to being seen. Yet too often, literature repeats an old choreography: a man looks, a woman is looked at, and the text follows his desire. Modern erotic writing demands a reversal … Continue reading Reversing the Gaze – How to Reimagine Voyeuristic Scenes→
Invisible Depths When you create a character, you first see only the tip of their life. Their smile, their clothes, their behavior in class or in bed. But like an iceberg, the decisive layers remain hidden beneath the surface. Family background, friendships, school, first love, sexual experiences – all of it shapes them, even if … Continue reading The Backstory of Your Characters: Why You Must Know the Whole Iceberg→
The first paragraph is an invitation your readers can’t refuse. It decides whether they stay or move on. In erotic fiction, it carries extra weight, because tension and physicality pulse from the very start. The First Breath of a Story Picture this: a humid lecture hall in midsummer. The protagonist, a student with sweaty palms, … Continue reading The First Paragraph in Erotic Fiction→
We all know them: those dialogues in erotic stories that sound like they’re from a bad movie. “Oh yes, that feels so good!” or “You’re so beautiful!” – and we just think: Does anyone really talk like that? The answer is no. Real people speak differently. And that’s exactly why many dialogues seem so wooden. … Continue reading Dialogues that get under your skin→
Patrice Chéreau’s Intimacy (2001) is one of those films that redefined the boundaries between eroticism, art, and psychological drama. Its power stems in part from the literary foundation: Hanif Kureishi’s short story collection Intimacy (1998), which explores decaying relationships, sexual longing, and the fragility of human closeness. Chéreau didn’t simply adapt the material; he distilled … Continue reading Intimacy – When Eroticism Becomes a Landscape of the Soul→
What is the trickster archetype? The trickster is a fascinating archetype that wanders through world literature. He embodies chaos, the unexpected, and the transgression of social norms. The trickster breaks rules not out of malice, but out of an inner necessity. He is neither purely good nor purely evil—he stands beyond such moral categories. In … Continue reading The trickster as an archetype in erotic literature→
The term catfishing originates from the digital age: someone creates a false identity—usually online—to deceive, manipulate, or gain emotional (or financial) advantages. But the phenomenon itself is far from new. Long before social media and dating apps, people used fake identities to exert power, stir longing, or reinvent themselves. In literature, the motif of identity … Continue reading Catfishing: Deception, Desire, and Literary Tension in Erotic Writing→
Hardly any other erotic novel from the 18th century has achieved such a lasting reputation as Memoirs of a Woman of Pleasure, better known as Fanny Hill. British author John Cleland wrote the text around 1748/49 – at a time when English literature was morally conservative, but spicy material was also circulating in private reading … Continue reading Fanny Hill – A scandalous novel with staying power→
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