Winter is a season of contrasts, where the warmth of a cozy fire contrasts with the bitter cold of nature. It’s a time when snow and ice cover the ground and the crackle of a fire can be the only source of warmth on an icy day. As writers, we can use these contrasts to … Continue reading Crackling fires and icy icicles: how contrasts inspire your imagination
Finland, a winter trip. The sauna is running at full speed and three friends are enjoying the healing effect inside. The heat cleanses their bodies of toxins, relaxes their muscles and stimulates their circulation. After a few rounds in the sauna, they decide to cool down. They go outside into the snow that has covered … Continue reading Snow on bare skin – What Finnish culture teaches us
When an author publishes a book under a pseudonym, it’s usually to protect their identity or to explore a different genre. In the case of Kerryn Higgs’ “All That False Instruction”, the reason for using a false name was family pressure and the threat of a lawsuit. The novel, which was published in 1975 under … Continue reading Lesbian Coming Out: “All That False Instruction” by Kerryn Higgs
The choker, a necklace wrapped tightly around the neck, has become a popular fashion accessory in recent years. However, few people seem to know the meaning behind the black choker. The history and origins of the choker are fascinating and varied, with influences from different cultures and eras. In this blog post, we will look … Continue reading The choker – origin and history of the velvet necklace
Threesomes, also known as ménage-a-trois, are a popular fantasy for many people. The idea of having sex with two partners at the same time can be exciting, but it can also be a complicated experience. There are many factors to consider when having a threesome, such as the emotional impact, the potential for jealousy, and … Continue reading Ménage-a-trois: The pros and cons of threesomes
Inhibitions, fears and inhibitions often limit our freedom to express ourselves. They prevent us from accepting ourselves as we truly are and stop us from enjoying life to the fullest. However, as women, it is important to challenge these limiting beliefs, especially when it comes to our relationship with our bodies. In this blog post, … Continue reading Overcoming inhibitions: A journey to self-acceptance
Have you ever wondered why the best ideas come to you when you’re not actively looking for them? Maybe it’s in the shower or on your morning walk. This phenomenon is not just in your head. The process of creativity is complex, but we’ve looked at some research to understand better the brain’s role in … Continue reading How does creativity work? Why do the best ideas often come to us in the shower?
As writers, we’ve all been there. You’re in the middle of your day, and a brilliant idea for a story or scene pops into your head. You think to yourself, “I’ll remember this later; it’s too good to forget. But then, when you sit down to write, the idea is gone, or it’s not as … Continue reading Why every writer should carry a notebook at all times
The human body is a complex and multifaceted structure, filled with both beauty and shame. Sociologist Erving Goffman explored this dichotomy of the body in his seminal work, “The Presentation of Self in Every-day Life”. In this blog post, we will explore Goffman’s ideas about the presentation of the body and their relevance to the … Continue reading The Presentation of the Self in Everyday Life – Erving Goffman about Staging and Body Shame
Trust is essential in any relationship, and in erotic novels it plays a crucial role, especially in more intimate scenes. Without trust, it becomes difficult to create a safe and respectful atmosphere between characters. But how can we accurately describe the physical and psychological indicators of trust in writing? What are the outward signs, and … Continue reading Mastering the Art of Describing Trust in Erotic Fiction
