All posts by Ennka

The choker – origin and history of the velvet necklace

The choker, a necklace wrapped tightly around the neck, has become a popular fashion accessory in recent years. However, few people seem to know the meaning behind the black choker. The history and origins of the choker are fascinating and varied, with influences from different cultures and eras. In this blog post, we will look … Continue reading The choker – origin and history of the velvet necklace

Ménage-a-trois: The pros and cons of threesomes

Threesomes, also known as ménage-a-trois, are a popular fantasy for many people. The idea of having sex with two partners at the same time can be exciting, but it can also be a complicated experience. There are many factors to consider when having a threesome, such as the emotional impact, the potential for jealousy, and … Continue reading Ménage-a-trois: The pros and cons of threesomes

Overcoming inhibitions: A journey to self-acceptance

Inhibitions, fears and inhibitions often limit our freedom to express ourselves. They prevent us from accepting ourselves as we truly are and stop us from enjoying life to the fullest. However, as women, it is important to challenge these limiting beliefs, especially when it comes to our relationship with our bodies. In this blog post, … Continue reading Overcoming inhibitions: A journey to self-acceptance

How does creativity work? Why do the best ideas often come to us in the shower?

Have you ever wondered why the best ideas come to you when you’re not actively looking for them? Maybe it’s in the shower or on your morning walk. This phenomenon is not just in your head. The process of creativity is complex, but we’ve looked at some research to understand better the brain’s role in … Continue reading How does creativity work? Why do the best ideas often come to us in the shower?

The Presentation of the Self in Everyday Life – Erving Goffman about Staging and Body Shame

The human body is a complex and multifaceted structure, filled with both beauty and shame. Sociologist Erving Goffman explored this dichotomy of the body in his seminal work, “The Presentation of Self in Every-day Life”. In this blog post, we will explore Goffman’s ideas about the presentation of the body and their relevance to the … Continue reading The Presentation of the Self in Everyday Life – Erving Goffman about Staging and Body Shame

Mastering the Art of Describing Trust in Erotic Fiction

Trust is essential in any relationship, and in erotic novels it plays a crucial role, especially in more intimate scenes. Without trust, it becomes difficult to create a safe and respectful atmosphere between characters. But how can we accurately describe the physical and psychological indicators of trust in writing? What are the outward signs, and … Continue reading Mastering the Art of Describing Trust in Erotic Fiction

Procrastination – A Phenomenon Every Writer Knows About

Procrastination is something that affects just about everyone. Whether you’re a student, freelancer, or entrepreneur, putting things off until the last minute can seem like an endless cycle that’s hard to break. This is especially true for erotica writers, as their works often contain explicit content and evoke a wide range of emotions. With so … Continue reading Procrastination – A Phenomenon Every Writer Knows About

Conflict and Disagreements in Erotic Literature

Literature thrives on tension and conflict between its characters. This is especially true in the realm of erotic literature, where nothing is more boring than vanilla sex without any sparks. But how do we navigate the role of conflict in erotic stories? How do we depict the complexities of relationships and human emotions while focusing … Continue reading Conflict and Disagreements in Erotic Literature

Accuracy in Erotic Writing: Biological and Anatomical Facts

As erotic writers, we have the power to transport our readers to a world of sensuality, desire, and pleasure. However, with great power comes great responsibility, especially regarding accuracy. The use of biological or anatomical facts in our erotic stories can make a huge difference in their credibility and realism. In this article, we will … Continue reading Accuracy in Erotic Writing: Biological and Anatomical Facts